FROM
"BLAZIN" TO BURNT OUT
“I’m
so tired of going and doing and people pulling on me
all the time…”
“Why do I feel like
a rocking chair-moving but not going anywhere, and seeing
nothing happening…?”
“I’m so frustrated
and ready to give up on this whole ministry thing, its
a puppet show…I jump and dance for you…You
jump and dance for me…”
“Man, I’m at
the place that I’m not even feelin’ God…He
doesn’t care about me…” |
Sound familiar? Ever
been there? Picture it, you were blazing like the hottest
fire ever ignited-full of passion and zeal for God and His
plan for your life. Then, over time something happened, and
now you’re no more than a melted candle, on its way
to flickering out and waxing cold…Looks like a case
of “SPIRTUAL BURNOUT!”
Could it possibly happen? Yep! So many Christians now days
are finding themselves in this condition. Lately, the Lord
has been dealing with me concerning this issue and its effect
on those in the Body of Christ who are leaders and ministers-especially
those of us who are in leadership roles in the Holy Hip
Hop Community….So….
WHAT
EXACTLY IS BURNOUT?
Well, its not a new term…in fact,
the secular world has used it to describe one who is physically
and emotionally exhausted. I heard a very powerful definition
that takes the term a little deeper. Dr. Herbert Freudenberger
describes Burnout as:
| “Someone in a state of fatigue or
frustration brought about by devotion to a cause, a way
of life or relationship that failed to produce the expected
reward” |
How many Christians and ministry leaders do you know and
have seen nearly run themselves “ragged” solely
out of duty, obligation and appearance for their church; their
ministries; their church leaders; their congregations-thinking
it would bring them the deep satisfaction to their souls-like
water to a dry desert-only to find themselves broken, wounded,
hurt, depleted, angry and some even off the frontlines of
ministry all together, uninterested in the Kingdom life. Believe
me, this isn’t something that happens overnight-it’s
a gradual process that can creep in on any of us. Let’s
look at how it can happen.
HOW/WHY
DO LEADERS BURNOUT?
They deviate from the true HEART
call of Christianity. Even though we are
leaders and ministers called to a particular assignment by
God, it can be very easy to forget that we are STILL CHRISTIANS!
The highest call of the believer in Christ is to LOVE the
Father and bring Him Glory.
Jesus replied, “Love
the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul
and with all your mind.”
- Matthew 22:37
“You are worthy, our
Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you
created all things, and by your will they were created and
have their being.”
- Revelation 4:11
We can get so duty bound and think our acceptance of God
is based from that duty. Remember the story of the Prodigal
Son? (St. Luke 15: 11-32) When the prodigal Son came back
home; his brother had beef not only with his brother, but
also with his own father.
“Look! For so many years
I have been SERVING you, and I have never neglected
a command of yours; and yet you have never given me a kid,
that I might be merry with my friends; but when this son of
yours came, who has devoured your wealth with harlots, you
killed the fattened calf for him.”
- Luke 15:29,30
The brother forgot who he was and had a distorted view of
the situation…everything the father had was his…his
father loved him and accepted him, because he was HIS SON,
NOT because of what the son did around the house…He
forgot that his home was based in love-as his prodigal brother
found out.
They substitute ABIDING for
ACTIVITY
“Abide in me and I will
abide in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must
abide in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you abide
in me…Apart from me, YOU CAN DO NOTHING.”
- St John 15: 4-5
Unfortunately many Christian leaders in their pursuit of
doing great things in ministry,
get caught in the whirlwind of activity. They soon believe
that their “anointing”; gifts and talents
will bring them a sense of satisfaction. They’re so
caught up, they can’t leave the scene for one minute…they
don’t wanna miss all the action…AND adulation.
Contrary to popular opinion, leaders and ministers are NOT
to live off their “anointing”; gifts
or talents, but off their relationship with God. Now, don’t
get me wrong, I’m not implying that there’s no
satisfaction in serving God- not at all-I’m just saying
you cannot substitute it in the place of a life of abiding
in Christ. In fact, TRUE ministry flows out of an intimate
relationship with God. The moment this stops, you move from
a lifestyle of genuine intimacy to a life of religious imitation-your
life and ministry becomes a façade.
They become PEOPLE PLEASERS-not
a GOD-PLEASER
You will definitely head toward burnout when your life becomes
one of pleasing men
all the time. People can wear you out…can I get a AMEN?
Some of the churches took the Apostle Paul through some serious
changes, and though he loved them…he let them know what
the real deal was…
“Am I now trying to win
the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men?
If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant
of Christ.”
- Galatians 1:10
Most believers and ministers continue on in this condition,
thinking that things will magically change…others just
give up on it all and continue drifting, totally burned out,
bearing no fruit. But I believe there is hope for the burned
out warrior in reigniting his/her heart to blaze again.
SPARK
TOWARDS A BLAZIN’ LIFE
1. Go back and REMEMBER
and RENEW the days when the FLAME was blazin’ and
HOT! – Revelation
2:4 |
2. Fall in love again
with the God who called you and let His love flow through
His call on you. – Philippians
3:7-11 |
3. Take special rendezvous
of REST and REFRESHING (naturally and spiritually).
– St. Mark 6:30-31;
Psalms 16:11 |
4. Allow God and
HIS GRACE AND STRENGTH to work His will and call
IN YOU. – Philippians
2:13; I Corinthians 15:10; Psalms 127:1 |
To
be a Christian and a leader called by God, as a vessel of
honor is an awesome privilege and responsibility. It definitely
comes with trials and hardships, but the call is sweetened
by the grace and Spirit of God working with and in us…it
should be a joy and delight to us…I pray we walk in
it full of holy passion and BLAZIN’ with HOLY FIRE for
the Glory of God!!
Grace and peace,
Carlita aka “Lady Car”
Yuinon Local 301 |